" I explained that I had taken a sabbatical from dating and had spent that time examining my feelings and my relationship behavior.I realized I hadn't been a good listener, which meant I was never really present on my dates.
The fact is, it's nearly impossible to hide a broken heart; I know I fooled no one when I was trying to do so.When she engaged me in conversation, I mumbled one-word answers.I didn't know whether to say good-bye or apologize at the end of the evening, so I mumbled both.I shared my feelings about the breakup openly and honestly, and asked how they had managed their own heartbreaks.They told me to do things like sit quietly at home, alone, and allow myself to feel the pain rather than continuing to avoid it by going out.
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Trying to date immediately after a relationship ends is ill-advised.
I clung to the foolish idea that a new woman could make my sorrow disappear, so I went on a few more disastrous dates.
The sage counsel I sorely needed came from my best friends — men who loved me, didn't judge me and supported my need to rebuild my heart and spirit.
I was present in body, of course, but not in spirit.
In one case, I double-dated with a friend and his partner, who had fixed me up with an attractive woman who had clearly spent time on her outfit, hair and makeup.